Tuesday, 1 April 2025

Absence explained

 It's months since I posted; and to be frank, I had pretty much decided to close the blog down. There were a couple of reasons for that:

  • unbeknownst to me, I was suffering a bit with long covid - tiredness after any exercise and a general sense of ennui. Not surprising having had covid 3 times (once on arrival in the UK in April 2023, and twice last year). I had put the symptoms down to ageing, especially since we had moved into the retirement village and I thought it was likely to be the effect of leaving the wider community behind and being ensconced ever so comfortably here in Parkwood;
  • I often felt that I was writing/talking into the abyss - I'd had very few comments on the posts in the last while, and as I was no longer writing about our narrowboating adventures, I thought it was likely people had given up reading. After all, bletherings about life in a retirement village or cleaning the ponds or baking sourdough are hardly captivating reading - in spite of my occasionally quirky takes on some of the activities...

So I decided to let it go. I did think about starting up a new blog which would not be subject to the false advertising of having nb Waka Huia in the title. But I could not find a way to start a new blog! Every time I tried, it just brought this one up.

I was all set to call it quits until a friend in the USA emailed to say she missed my regular updates of our lives here. So Judy, you have spurred me back into action.

Also our friend Sarah, who is writing a book about dealing with the various systems when living with a partner with dementia, encouraged me to keep going.

So here I am: explaining myself!

I am going to keep writing and posting, and if you are a reader, please leave comments for me. I really do appreciate reading them and responding to them as well.

Just so you know what will be coming up in future posts that cover the last 5 months, here is a list:

  • 50 years of marriage celebrated;
  • a 7 week action-packed, hilarity-filled visit from our friend Julia, and the travels we undertook together
    • that will be a number of posts, I think;
  • a visit from fellow boating bloggers, Lisa and David of nb What a Lark;
  • David and the Parkwood ukelele group;
  • an upcoming trip to Sydney with other Parkwood people;
  • probably a bit about the ongoing fun with the Aquamove groups;
  • and very possibly I will stray into the occasional political rant ...

Stay tuned and get your commenting underway!

11 comments:

Bernice said...

And about time too…AWOL! Welcome back, and can’t wait to hear all about sourdough, trips, observations around a retirement village (watch out Richard Osman and the Thursday murder club?!), cheese scones, and the odd rant. Xx

Eileen said...

Good to have you back, thankyou Marilyn. I am just a nosey parker that is interested in what the interesting folk get up to.

Anonymous said...

I have been following this for years and am just as interested now you are land based. I love to hear about the food you make! I feel very guilty for not having commented before. Please do continue!!

Anonymous said...

I too have been following for years and worried something had happened. Glad you're back

Anonymous said...

Hooray! Nb Oleanna

Anonymous said...

I am keeniy waiting for another of your political rants. I bet it will not be a critical comment of your beloved LIEBOR party !

Anonymous said...

I’m another reader who has been lurking for years and wondered if everything was alright until l read Lisa’s blog last week. Please continue to blog, you feel as a reader immersed in other peoples lives and really want to know they’re safe and well. Waka Huia is moored in view of us when we are at our boat so you’re regularly on my mind. Take care and remember, we are all just plain nosey as well.

Jo B / M said...

Welcome back and I too have missed your blogs and had just thought you had been busy with life 😀 good to see you back on here and I always enjoy reading about what you have been up to 😍❤️

Jenny said...

I know what you say about writing and receiving few comments, wondering if anyone is out there! But there always have been a lot more lurkers than commenters, I've discovered. Other people's lives are always so interesting to read about, and dont forget, we are writing for ourselves as well. Happy blogging again.

Anonymous said...

I also love your meanderings from Melbourne. Diane ex nb ferndale

Marilyn, nb Waka Huia said...

Thank you all so much for taking the time and care to comment. It's just lovely!
Another post tomorrow, I promise - in between finishing packing and making cheese scones and making sure the house is clean before we head away on Monday morning.
Mxx